When a child suddenly uses foul language, any parents instinctively reacts with anger, scolding, or even corporal punishment. However, such responses often fail to resolve the problem. To help children truly correct their verbal behavior, experts suggest that parents follow these four steps to calmly guide their child toward healthier emotional expression.
First, parents should stay calm and immediately stop the inappropriate language. Take time to explain why such words are unacceptable and how they may hurt others, helping children learn through understanding.Parents should stay calm and promptly stop their child from using foul language. (Photo: Provided by Heho Health)
Second, avoid overreacting. If parents respond with surprise or laughter, children might find it amusing and seek more attention by repeating it. Staying calm reduces the appeal of using foul language.
Third, observe when the child tends to use bad language&mdashoften during moments of anger or frustration. Practice &ldquorephrasing&rdquo with them, such as saying &ldquoI&rsquom really angry right now&rdquo instead of using hurtful words. This helps them build alternative ways to express their feelings.Work with your child to explore better words to express their emotions. (Photo: Provided by Heho Health)
Lastly, set family rules about avoiding foul language, and lead by example. Adults should model respectful communication to foster a positive environment and help children develop good verbal habits through daily interactions.